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A. I didn’t have the success you described in your last blog.  I failed miserably when I took on the role of Gala Chair.  The members of my committee barely speak to me and I to them.  Where did I … Continue reading →

Q. Its not a promotion, yet, so I don’t want to make a big deal over the fact that I am youngest person to step into this role. Should I stay modestly quiet about my achievements? A.  Many of my … Continue reading →

Q:  Is it just me, or is the world in more disarray than ever? A:   I don’t have an answer, so I will wonder along with you.  Yes, smart phones and 24×7 coverage contribute to the sense of “disarray.”  It … Continue reading →

Q:  I am one of two black women in my group.  We don’t look anything alike.  I can’t believe that “they” get us confused.  How can this be? A:  OMG! That just happened to me.  I was in meeting and … Continue reading →

Q:  It could be cancer!  I am scheduled for a biopsy next week and I feel as if my life has hit a wall:  I am 28, never even had surgery. I was healthy last week and now I am … Continue reading →

Q:  I bookmarked the White House Fellows application last year but I am afraid that if I tell my boss I am applying I won’t get promoted.  Should I take the risk? A:  You probably know from reading my book … Continue reading →

Q:  It absolutely drives me bonkers when I offer a specific time for a meeting and the response is “I’ll try to make it.”  What does “try” mean? A:  When someone says that they are trying to lose weight or … Continue reading →

Q:  Jason and I have been friends since high school. We were members of a marksman’s club in college and he was my best man. My career is outpacing his. Now it seems like he is angry not only at … Continue reading →

Q:  I am so embarrassed. A colleague mentioned double-checking my work and I “went off” on him.  I completely over-reacted.  What do I do now? A: I feel your pain.  You may not remember this old chestnut by the Three … Continue reading →

Q:  I never wanted to wear the corporate business “uniform.” I add my special flare by wearing artsy tee shirts under my blazer and funky designer shoes.  I am expressing my personal brand. But recently a colleague asked if I … Continue reading →