Monthly Archives: March 2015

Not fitting in is a choice

Q:  I enjoy my work but I feel like a duck out of water. I just don’t fit in and I don’t know whether I want to fit in. What should I do? A:  I am going to hone in … Continue reading

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Conflict or conflicted?

Q:  When there is conflict, I stuff down my feelings and walk away. It’s not in my nature to fight back–I let things fester. Help. A:  Being self aware or emotionally intelligent is the key to appreciating and anticipating your … Continue reading

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Retire? Redefine Work.

Q:  I thought it was the winter doldrums but now realize that I am ready to retire.  However, I feel that I have one foot nailed to the floor.  How do I take two steps forward? A:  Retirement can be … Continue reading

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When will this transition end?

Q:   Will this transition never end? I agreed to train Eric and take on my new role; now I am doing two jobs and it seems that my old manager just won’t let me go.  Help? A:  Congratulations on your … Continue reading

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Why do I have to ask?

Q.  I can’t believe that I had to ask three times before my sales guy picked up the phone, made the call, and we got a new client.  Seemed like a simple request.  I am tired of repeating, cajoling and … Continue reading

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