Q: I thought it was the winter doldrums but now realize that I am ready to retire. However, I feel that I have one foot nailed to the floor. How do I take two steps forward?
A: Retirement can be an exciting next step if your definition of retirement is current. I view retirement as the stage in life when you no longer work for money, your money works for you. As a result, retirement is not the end of work, but work takes on a new meaning. It is no longer a ‘have to,” it is a choice. Most of my friends who are retired continue to be actively involved some “work” for as many hours as they were pre-retirement.
As you contemplate your next phase, explore the following questions with your significant other and close friends:
- Are you happy? Fulfilled?
- Unfinished business? If yes, what is it? What do you need to feel fulfilled? Accomplished?
- What are the new skills and experiences that will keep you sharp and expand your circle of friends?
- What organization can benefit from your deep experience and passion?
- What is your routine to stay vital, visible and vigorous (healthy)?
Note: Chapter 17 of my book Getting There and Staying There begins with a quotation from Spencer Johnson: “Life moves on and so should we.” Re-read the examples on pages 172 -175 I am certain that you will be inspired by the full lives of Mike Ullman, Trish Karter, Jim Padilla and Yvonne Jackson.
Now enjoy a laugh. 