Author Archives: Priscilla Douglas

Q:  I sent an email to the head of global technology to schedule a follow up meeting.  I wrote:  “OK for us to meet up.” The global head’s response: “What is the purpose of this meeting?” and copied my boss.  … Continue reading →

Q.  My life just got turned upside down, I have breast cancer!  I am OK telling my boss, but do I have to tell my team? A.  Don’t close down the possibility of being supported by colleagues and loved by … Continue reading →

Q:  We are all shocked, our boss was let go.  Am I next? A:  An array of questions come to mind when I read your question: Is your boss still on the job and in the process of transitioning out?  … Continue reading →

Q:  I am somewhat embarrassed to ask this question, but is it OK to ask for time off to care for my dog—a car hit her and she cries when I leave.  I absolutely love my dog. A.   No need … Continue reading →

Question:  The office outing is next week and families are invited:  How can I—we— get out of going? Answer:  If your experience of outings is limited to family picnics you probably didn’t grow up in the country club social set.  … Continue reading →

Question:  I don’t have a question, I have a problem:  My social circle keeps shrinking because I work all of the time.  I guess it is what it is. Answer:   I almost wish that “whatever” would make a comeback and … Continue reading →

Question:   I will be 50 this month and it seems that everyone expects me to know exactly what the rest of my life will look like. Honestly, I have no clue.  Am I the only one? Answer:  No, you are … Continue reading →

Question:  Each day is rolling into the next. If I have to go to one more non-productive meeting, I think I’ll scream. What can I do? Answer:   Are you curious? If the answer is yes, ask, “What can I do … Continue reading →

Question:  My coach said that it seems that I already have made up my mind, I just want to hear what she has to say. Isn’t it OK to look to her for advice? Answer:  Coaching and advising are as … Continue reading →

Question: I would like to get promoted the end of this year—what advice do you have for me? Answer: In terms of getting to that next level, asking questions is more important than seeking advice.  Getting promoted is not an … Continue reading →