Author Archives: Priscilla Douglas

Q:  I never thought that this would happen to me: Another day has passed, and I am sitting at my desk, not working out.  Help! A:  In his book The End of Illness, Dr. David Agus warns that “sitting for … Continue reading →

Q:   My boss suggested that I get a coach–am I in trouble? A:  If this were 2004, not 2014, having your boss recommend you see a coach might be a negative signal. But today, coaching is viewed as a perk, … Continue reading →

Q:  I got my notice today, I don’t have a job.  Where do I start? A:  Take a deep breath and remember that when a door closes another opens.  Your job now is to look for the open doors not … Continue reading →

Q:  What a Valentines Day! I have a gorgeous engagement ring and I am so happy.  Here’s the problem:  we work together and have kept it a secret.  Do I wear the ring or not? A:  Congratulations!  Mazel Tov! Proust! … Continue reading →

 Q:  While we are celebrating Black History Month, I am so frustrated that the burden is on me to fit in and develop executive presence to make SVP.  What can I do? A:   Sometimes it feels unfair but don’t confuse … Continue reading →

Q:  I try to change but I can’t—why? A:  Before I answer your question Quarterbacks Manning and Wilson eclipsed Punxsutawney Phil; the Super Bowl overshadowed Groundhog Day.  However, now is a good time to download the movie Groundhog Day. Why?  … Continue reading →

Q:  Eek!  What can I do?  It’s only January, I am swamped and the work keeps coming A: Sometimes I feel swamped.  Yes, me and when that happens I have a vivid image:  work seems to come at me like … Continue reading →

Q:  I am newly elected president of my professional group and a long-standing committee member is saying really horrible things about me to the members. What do I do? A:  Always remember who you are.  Don’t let someone else define … Continue reading →

Q:  While on vacation, I don’t like being caught by a bunch of candid photos. But when I say, “Please Stop.  No photos.” I am surprised by the rude responses I receive from people I don’t even know. What can … Continue reading →

Q:  I have big plans for 2014. How do I keep all of them moving forward? A:  Congratulations!  2014 can be a great year if you consider the following: Is your plan in your head or written down? Who is … Continue reading →